What is Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence is not about a single fight, it is a pattern of coercive behavior and abuse used by one partner to gain control over the other. Behaviors may include:
- Physical violence or abuse (or the threat of physical abuse)
- Isolation
- Intimidation
- Control of household money, not allowing partner to work, denying access to information about finances
- Denying access to medical or mental healthcare or medication
- Forced sexual activity
- Psychological abuse
- Stalking or monitoring daily activities
- Harming or threatening to harm their children
Domestic Violence is against the law. Every individual has the right to live without physical, sexual, verbal, mental or emotional abuse. Unfortunately, Domestic Violence is prevalent and can happen to anyone regardless of gender, age, race, religion or income level. But it is never the victim’s fault.
The warning signs of domestic violence include jealousy, name-calling, possessiveness, and the abuser making you feel that you are the one causing their behavior. You may feel:
- Confused that someone you love (or once loved) is hurting you
- Ashamed or guilty or wonder if anyone will believe you
- Worried about calling the police or telling your family, friends, or co-workers
- Hopeless that things will ever change
- Unworthy of a life without your abuser
Please know that you are not alone! If you find yourself wondering if your relationship is abusive or have questions about your rights and your safety, talk to a trusted adult or call Harmony House.
